One Step Back , Two Steps Forward
Bowling has always been a source of joy for me—a sport that combines skill, strategy, and social interaction in a way that few other activities can. I looked forward to the weekly league nights for spending time with friends and the unserious-serious competition made every strike and spare feel rewarding. But recently, something has shifted. What once brought me excitement now feels more like a burden, and I’ve come to the realization that it’s time for a change. That’s why I’ve decided to step back from the weekly league and take on the role of a sub instead.
This decision wasn’t easy. I’ve invested a lot of time and energy into the sport, and the commitment has always been a point of pride for me. However, the mental toll it has taken lately has outweighed the benefits. Week after week, I found myself dreading league night instead of looking forward to it. The pressure to perform consistently, combined with the demands of my personal and professional life, has left me feeling drained rather than energized. What was once a sport I loved has started to feel more like an obligation.
By stepping back and becoming a sub, I’m giving myself the space to rediscover the enjoyment I used to feel. As a sub, I can still participate in the league without the pressure of a full-time commitment. It allows me to bowl on my terms, when I feel ready and excited to do so, rather than forcing myself to show up out of a sense of duty. I believe this change will help me reconnect with the sport in a healthier, more sustainable way.
This break is also an opportunity for me to focus on other areas of my life that need attention. Whether it’s spending more time with loved ones, pursuing other hobbies, or simply giving myself a chance to relax, I know this decision will bring balance back into my routine. Bowling will always be there, and I can return to it full-time when it feels right again. For now, stepping back is the best thing I can do for my mental well-being.
Taking a break from something you love isn’t always a sign of defeat. Sometimes, it’s a necessary step to preserve that love and prevent burnout. I’m hopeful that by making this change, I’ll not only regain my passion for bowling but also improve my overall quality of life. And who knows? Maybe when I do step back into the league full-time, I’ll be better than ever.
